bEfriend is a relational model of ministry for adults with & without disability, which includes 1-1 pairing in friendships. 

Building Friendships, Changing Stories

bEfriend creates simple yet profound friendships between people with and without disabilities—connections that might not happen otherwise. Many adults with disabilities primarily interact with family or paid staff, but we believe in a different story—one where friendships are freely given and life is shared. Through training and support, we help churches and communities foster these meaningful connections, because saying “yes” to friendship changes everything.

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Enjoy a night of respite and fun. For kids with disabilities, their siblings, and parents.

start a befriend

Start a recess at your local church or community.

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stories of friendship

sarah & karla

thomas & tanner

  • "once you become (his) friend, you're in for life."

    befriend Advocate about his friend

  • "he was so glad he went because it was a place where he didn't feel like an outsider but like one who BELONGED."

    guardian on behalf of bEfriend friend

  • "not only does she get paired with one friend but it sounds like she gets to be connected to a whole community of people"

    guardian of bEfriend friend

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Friends

An adult experiencing disability who would like to be in a paired friendship. Be part of a friendship where you are valued for who you are, not just the support you receive. Through bEfriend, you’ll gain a friend to share life’s moments—big and small—in a meaningful, mutual relationship.

Advocates

An adult who is not experiencing disability who would like to be in a paired friendship. Step into a friendship that goes beyond service and into genuine connection. As an Advocate, you’ll have the opportunity to share life, laughter, and experiences with a Friend, forming a bond that enriches both of your stories.

it’s your turn to change the story

start a bEfriend

Bring this model of friendship to your church or community. We provide the tools, training, and support to help you cultivate a culture of belonging. By starting bEfriend in your community, you can help break down barriers and create spaces where friendships flourish.